Sicily’s
Birth Story
Darrell was anxious for the baby to be born and I,
Heather, was finally starting to be. On Friday February 10, Darrell and I were
bound and determined to have the baby that weekend. We watched a movie for a date
night- after the movie was over I decided to try some laughter therapy since
that pretty much induced labor with my last two pregnancies. It was getting
late and we were already “punchy” so I showed Darrell a hilarious workout video
called Body Flex. He had never seen it and we both laughed hysterically! It was
really funny to see this lady do these weird facial expressions and also to
watch Darrell roll on the floor laughing so much. :)
| The boys were excited! |
I called Cathy Larson, our midwife to let her know
about the contractions and she said that she’d come see me around 11:00. I
called my mom to let her know since I needed her to help with our other
children. Darrell got home from the leadership training and Cathy came around
12:00 noon. My mom came and took Salem, Oaklen, and Ezril out to lunch and to the
park.
| Eating lunch at Subway while in labor |
We decided to splurge and go to Subway for lunch for
the $5 Footlongs-in-February sale. I had a few contractions during lunch. They
were getting stronger but still very manageable. After the lunch, we did our
“walk” in stores since it was nice weather for February, but not warm enough
for me to walk around outside for very long. We went to Whole Foods and Smith’s
Grocery to pick up some last minute things. When I had a contraction, I just
stopped in the aisle and held onto the cart to breathe. We saw a few people we
knew but no one could tell I was in
labor. The contractions were still pretty manageable.
| Shopping for our walking labor |
| A few last minute errands during labor |
Darrell’s parents called and wanted to come see our
new kitchen and so they came without knowing that I was in labor. We visited
with Eric, Elaine, Natalie, Adam and Zeke. I had a few contractions while they
were there but I was able to just walk (waddle) around and things were fine.
After they left Darrell started making chicken for dinner.
We had to use the crockpot since we still didn’t have an oven or stove ready
for use in our almost-finished-newly-remodeled kitchen. (The fridge and oven
were still in the dining room.) Around 5:00 PM, my mom brought the kids home,
they had been hanging out at Uncle Cabot and Aunt Jen’s house waiting for us
to call with an update. It was decided that my mom and John would have dinner
with us, and then take the kids up to their house to be there until bedtime.
| Last dinner before Sicily was born |
Darrell and I decided to watch a movie. We had
already watched Steel Magnolias (my favorite chick flick) a few nights before,
so we pulled out the latest DVD that I borrowed from the library: American Graffiti.
As we watched the movie, the contractions got stronger. Darrell and I got up each
time from the couch to do the baby dance. It helped to lean on him while
walking and swaying.
About 9:00 PM my mom brought my boys back home and
we put them to bed and told them we’d wake them when the baby came.
| Cathy helping through a contraction |
I managed to get a little bit of sleep but slept
very lightly. Cathy came upstairs to check on me a few times through the night
but saw I was sleeping and didn’t awaken me. She, Becky, and Laurisa slept on
the couch and floor downstairs awaiting any further progression.
| Happy couple |
The boys got ready to go to church and Aunt Marie picked
them up and took them to church. Darrell stayed home with me. I ate, showered,
and curled my hair. I figured I’d indulge in a nice shower and spending time
doing my hair since I wasn’t sure when I would be able to pamper myself again after
the baby was here.
Contractions finally started getting stronger, I liked the lower back compression that Cathy did before she left so I asked Darrell to press on my lower back. He was doing his best, but I didn't like the way he was pressing on my back, I wanted Cathy. I
had Darrell call Cathy about 10:00 AM, she said she’d come. I was getting
anxious for her arrival and irritable with the contractions. Darrell happened
to enter the bedroom eating a bowlful of Chinese pot stickers. The cabbage was
smelly and I didn’t like it. I was mad at him for eating in front of me, and
for not making any food for me. I snapped at him about the food and asked where
the heck Cathy was. At that moment, Cathy was right on queue and entered the
room. I sheepishly said hello. :) I’m sure it’s quite normal in her line of
work for verbal offenses like that; it’s often a sign that the mother in labor
is nearing the end. (Halleluiah!) Darrell told her that I wanted her to press on my lower back, so she did and I didn't like it! :) It wasn't helpful anymore and Darrell smiled since his previous work wasn't in vain.
By that time it was about 11:00 AM. I was tired and
decided to lie down on the bed on my left side. Cathy and Darrell were there
and Becky arrived soon afterward. Cathy said that I could start pushing
whenever my body told me to push. I started having a contraction and felt the
need to push. Between contractions Becky gave me some Emergen-C drink that gave
me the needed energy and electrolytes. It was very good and was just what I
needed.
| It's a girl...ignore the blue towels :) The rest of the pics are too naked! |
| New family of 6 |
| Laurisa, Heather, Sicily, Cathy, Becky |
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| Oaklen cut the cord |





